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Dan Eickmeier's avatar

In some ways huge amounts of what we do in primary care is a weird side eye version of palliative care. Palliative care is care provided with a view to relieve symptoms with no curative intent. Last time I checked in the family practice office we don’t actually cure a hell of a lot of stuff. We rarely cure diabetes (ozempic and similar meds may change that but still only while taking them), arthritis that isn’t in a joint that can be rebuilt (your aching hands, feet, ankles, shoulders and elbows (at least most shoulder and elbow stuff with some newer caveats), the list goes on of chronic conditions that we can’t cure. Yes, most aren’t immediately life threatening which is an important difference but honestly in medicine, outside of infectious disease and surgical care, there are precious few conditions we cure. But patients think we cure everything, “You mean I can’t stop taking my Diabetes or HTN drugs?” Medicine as a whole needs a reality check. We can make you feel a lot better for a lot of things but we likely can’t cure many of them. Maybe we need to get this first principle truth across and then expand it to the more traditional life limiting illnesses. But then everyone would lose faith in medicine. Which is a challenge in its own right.

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Tania de Vos's avatar

"I got a fever... and the only prescription... is more cowbell!" Thank you for the many chuckles and iconic references in this article. If my psychiatry textbooks taught me anything, it is that good humor is a very mature response to conflict, so I try to incorporate it whenever I feel it will be well-received.

My grandmother apparently shares that sentiment: Her 99th birthday is coming up next month, so my cousin told her "Just one more year, Ouma, then you get to raise your bat." (To those not familiar with cricket, the saying refers to the fact that the batsman would often raise their bat in celebration of reaching a century.) My grandmother did not waste a breath before answering in her deadpan, no-nonsense way: "And then you must take that bat from me... and whack me over the head with it!"

Looking forward to reading more of your writing :)

Warm regards from South Africa

Dr Tania de Vos (an aspiring oncologist with a love for palliative medicine and the people that care)

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